Three Strikes and You're OUT !!

Three strikes and you're out....

That's what my new favorite phrase is gonna be!! I checked the mail this afternoon after spending the last week getting contempt figures ready for my attorney and GUESS WHAT WAS IN THE MAIL...

A letter from my attorney's office forwarded from the judge saying that he will consider my ex's motion for a new trial and also hear my attorney's arguements at the same time... Ok, I just about blew a gasket on that one!! There has got to be an end to the madness my ex is putting me thru... I mean, deal with it- I'm not your's anymore... And no matter what you put me thru I will still leave smiling just knowing that I am finally DIVORCED from you!!!!

I figure sometime during that conference I can surely squeeze in the statement that if he was actually MADE to pay his child support or ANY child support at all- he probably would not have had the money to hire his THIRD attorney... I mean, geez... surely the judge can see if the first two couldn't do anything with him cuz he wouldn't even listen to his own attorney... what else can the third one possibly add to the mix????

What burns my a** up is the fact that the paperwork that was sent to the judge contained absolutely nothing truthful... and not by my opinion but it had all already been proved different in the temporary hearing... So, am I to expect that every time he gets the notion to run out and tell the same lame story to another attorney - I will then have to PAY for my attorney to go to court and defend me against the same stuff we have already proved???

There has got to be an end to the madness... I WILL have a life and there is absolutely NO WAY that my ex is wiping this smile off of my face...

I'll be there for that hearing with bells on my toes and one helluva smile on my face!!

He Owes HOW MUCH???

Well, it's been TWO days now... yep... working on contempt figures for my attorney... You would think that my ex would just try to do the right thing and neither one of us would have to go thru all of this!! I have had to go thru firgures for the last 18 months (since the agreement was retroactive back to when it was signed)... Much has changed during that time, so I have had to find starting and stopping dates of debts, etc...

Figures so far are showing he is behind well over $70,000!! I'm thinking it might be a bit difficult to just run over to one of your relatives and BORROW that much money... Right, I said borrow!! I am not sure that the man has sent one penny that he has not borrowed... even though he has had the ability to make well over what is owed!!

I'm hoping that me and the boys get some relief this time... Jail is not where I would have rather seen him but maybe it will be his wake-up call.... the boys deserve a DAD!!!

Father's Day

Happy
Father's Day
to all my friends and family
that are wonderful dads!!!

I hope you have the best
day ever...

And to my own daddy-
I LOVE you daddy...
:: insert sweet daughter grin here ::

Important Things in Life 101

Life... we just keep going! It's a vicious cycle that some people never change til the day they die... For the record- I DO NOT want to be labeled as one of those people!! What are the important things in your life?? Do you actually spend anytime doing them?? Seeing those people?? Or do you just keep waiting til you get ENOUGH TIME??

I want each and every one of you to take the time this weekend to do one single thing that you have been putting off doing because you just don't have the time...

...and then I want you to let me know what you did!!

Virtual hugs to ya....